Frequently Asked Questions

No. But it can. It depends on you and who the ceremony is for. The ceremony is meant to reflect not only your beliefs (secular, spiritual or religious) but also address those of someone you have/do care about; as well as for those who will gather for your ceremony - whether that is a wedding, celebration of life, baptism/naming or any other milestone.   

I have learned over the years that, especially for celebrations of life, some traditional "touch stones" are helpful for some who are gathered or for the person whose life is being celebrated. But these are not necessary either.  We can work on what is included and excluded together to ensure the ceremony is honest, respectful and has integrity.

I listen closely to your needs and I craft a ceremony that will definitely include the different traditions and cultures you want to honour. All is possible. 

Absolutely. Today, most milestone ceremonies are held in peoples' own venue of choice - such as parks, restaurants, homes, and banquet halls (etc.). I have officiated ceremonies in all of these locations and on beaches, in condo party rooms, in unique locations too - like libraries.  And I still also officiate ceremonies in places of worship, where permitted (typically a rented space as most churches will rent out their sanctuaries or other spaces within the building). If it is outside of the GTA (greater Toronto area) then I do require an extra fee for mileage. 

Example of locations: Many parents have asked me whether I will baptize their baby or toddler at home. They often feel a bit guilty not having the child baptized in a church or place of worship.  Often because they were baptized in the church or their parents would like this for their grandchild. What I tell parents is that baptism in the early Christian movement always took place at home or near a body of water. House churches were how the early movement began. So, you are actually following in the footsteps of a much older tradition of baptism when you have your child baptized at home. 

I have both an academic background in religious studies (Humanities not Theology) and in ritual studies as well as 15 years of practical experience. I am licensed in the Province of Ontario for weddings and I am ordained by Clergy Support Memorial Church - a non-denomination church that is part of the emerging church/spiritual movement.  I have officiated at over 500+ ceremonies. Please take a look at my "Meet Janice" page as well as some of my videos. I'd be happy to have a further discussion with you about my training and background. 

I do. I also offer relationship and spiritual guidance. 

Some couples have asked for 3 sessions with me of "pre-marriage" guidance. They don't want counseling sessions. They have some specific topics in mind but some are also looking for guidance on marriage itself and the first year. 

Some people have asked for some guidance and support following the death of someone they have cared about or loved. Again, they do not want to go to counseling or therapy and are not necessarily ready or want to go to a group session. They simply want some support and guidance to process their feelings at this time.

Please click on my "Booking and Shop" page for details or do contact me directly and we can discuss this further if you require more information.

1. Do you do rehearsals? Yes. At your chosen venue. There is a separate cost for this service as it is not included in your wedding ceremony package when you book me through All Seasons Weddings;
2. How old do witnesses need to be? Your witnesses should be 16 years old or older; 
3. Do you stay after the ceremony (for the reception)? No, I wish you well after the ceremony and depart your venue;
4. How long does the ceremony take? Usually 20-30 mins. Timing does depend on the number in your wedding party, the elements within your ceremony and it also allows for 5 mins near the end of the ceremony to sign all of the required documents;
5. When do you arrive? Usually, I arrive 10 mins ahead of your ceremony. Once I'm onsite I meet with the venue coordinator, bridal consultant, bride and groom (separately or together), the photographer, musicians/DJ, and wedding party. Everything is set into place and in motion;
6. Do you marry couples who have been married before? Yes. As long as you have a valid marriage license from your local city or municipality (which will include your divorce file number, or you may be a widow or widower);
7. Is there anyone you won't marry? Well, there are a few.  People who are immediately related; people who are impaired (substance); people under 16 years of age; people who are still legally married to others (e.g. their divorce has not yet come through but they have booked their wedding). 
8. Will you marry a couple when one person is dying? Yes. I have officiated several wedding ceremonies where this has been the case. Each situation is unique and needs to be discussed.